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Kimberly Dalferes | Author

Crazy, Southern, Irish Gal, Author

When A Lil Something Isn’t Nothing

May 6, 2017 by Kim Dalferes

May is Skin Cancer Awareness Month. Time to pay some attention to your largest organ. Today’s “little spot” could be tomorrow’s health scare. I know this from personal experience. 

It looked to be nothing. A barely there tiny pimple under my nose no bigger than a sesame seed which would get slightly scaly, flake off, and go away; only to return every few weeks. Over many months I went through this little cycle often, each time thinking, hmmm… I wonder if I should get this looked at?

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One day, instead of flaking away, this little spot started to bleed. We’re not talking something akin to a zombie flick here, just a little irritation. When I casually mentioned this to my Dad and showed him the spot, he noted;

“Ya know kiddo, I think you should go have that checked.”

Ya know kiddo, I think you should go have that checked. #skincancerawarenessmonth Click To Tweet

No sugar-coating from Dad; just the nudge I needed.

Skin cancer runs high in my family – Irish ancestry and Florida sunshine do not mix well. And, as we sit here in our middle-aged cheap seats perch, it’s important to note that the average age of diagnosis for skin cancer is 52.

What I was honestly prepared to hear from my doctor was a quick little;

“We’ll just take care of this right here in the office, no big deal.”

What I was a surprised to hear from my dermatologist was;

“I think we should take a biopsy.”

What I was VERY surprised by was the diagnosis: nodular basal cell carcinoma. 

Let’s go over a few terms, because everyone out there needs to be educated:

Basal Cell Carcinoma (BCC). BCC is the most common form of skin cancer. Nearly 3 million cases are diagnosed each year (http://www.skincancer.org/skin-cancer-information/basal-cell-carcinoma). In almost all cases it is NOT life threatening.

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The risk factors for BCC include:

  1. Light-colored or freckled skin
  2. Blue, green, or grey eyes
  3. Blond or red hair
  4. Overexposure to x-rays or other forms of radiation
  5. Many moles
  6. Close relatives who have or had skin cancer
  7. Many severe sunburns early in life
  8. Long-term daily sun exposure

    http://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/ency/article/000824.htm

Would you believe I met seven out of eight of these factors? Hello?!

Melanoma. This is the most serious form of skin cancer. This was NOT my diagnosis and I am very grateful.

Mohs Procedure. With my diagnosis, my dermatologist referred me for a Mohs procedure. Dr. Frederick Mohs developed this form of surgery which is considered to be the most effective way to treat skin cancer. This surgery removes the least amount of tissue while at the same time ensuring clean margins – clean meaning the area is deemed cancer free. The success rate for Mohs procedures is nearly 99%. You can see why I like my odds here.

You may ask yourself, why am I sharing all this? Because KNOWLEDGE IS POWER. I was lucky to have a  friend who had experience with skin cancer and who talked me through what I could expect during and after my procedure. Even with this wonderful source of support and information, I was still a bit unprepared for the extent of the procedure – that small little scaly imperfection was hiding a bigger problem just below the surface.

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Here is what I want to emphasize: if you’re wondering about anything, go get it checked out.

If you’re wondering about anything, go get it checked out. #skincancerawarenessmonth Click To Tweet

This one inch scar I sport has faded over time, but remains my little reminder to always put my health front and center as a priority. Each year now I have a thorough scalp-to-toes review with my dermatologist. 

Please know that I’ve kept these matters in perspective. I do not for one minute regard skin cancer as a laughing matter. However, there are many, many, illnesses and afflictions that are far more serious. I am committed to a healthy awareness of the risks of skin cancer, but wish to keep my circumstances grounded and proportional. I do know I’m very lucky.

Have you had any experiences with skin cancer? What’s your best advice? 

Cheers,

Kimba

PS: a little shout out to the wonderful doctors and staff at the Skin Cancer Surgery Center of Fairfax. 

Filed Under: The Middle-Aged Cheap Seats Tagged With: baby boomers, basal cell carcinoma, cancer, Dr. Frederick Mohs, I was in love with a short man once, Kim Dalferes, Kim Dalferes Author, Kimba, Kimberly Dalferes, Magic Fishing Panties, middle-aged, middle-aged cheap seats, Mohs procedure, signs of skin cancer, skin cancer, skin cancer risk factors, The Middle-Aged Cheap Seats, women

Comments

  1. Kathryn Mayer says

    May 8, 2017 at 2:49 pm

    ‘you should go get that check out’ has saved more than one nose holes, for that I am sure. Congrats and well done.

  2. Joyce Hansen says

    May 6, 2017 at 10:23 pm

    Thanks for the heads up Kim about skin cancer and about you being proactive to have things checked out. You’re absolutely right, people may think it nothing and not take it seriously. Now that things are heating up weather wise, we all need to be more cautious.

  3. Summer Price says

    May 6, 2017 at 10:12 pm

    Thank you for this post. Skin cancer runs in my family as well. My Mom and Grandpa have both had several (I wish I could underline that word) Melanoma spots removed. My Grandpa was raised as a farmer and that was his livelihood. He has been in the sun his entire life. My mom, who is a very freckled redhead, has tanned her entire life. I remember as a little girl her rubbing baby oil on and laying in the sun on top of a silver tarp like sun bed thing. Even after having Melanoma in several locations she continues to go to tanning beds. I, on the other hand, don’t typically leave the house without sunscreen.

  4. Valerie says

    October 20, 2013 at 12:24 pm

    5 Breast Cancer related surgeries in 6 months and I'm still laughing about some aspects of it.  Cancer can take our skin or boobs, but not our spirit and sense of humor!!

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